"Don't be so naive, there are different kind of people outside"... someone told be when I was 14 years old. I thanks God that I met this person who told me 6 years back, he taught me one of the lesson in my life. Since that time, I start scanning everyone around me, and I found that, people come to me with intention, and just few of them are sincere, that makes me fear of this world.
But, slowly, the fear has gone as I grown up, I start facing them one by one until today. What I can say that, it will never be an end. There's always person with bad intention around no matter where you are, who you are. I realized people like that is getting more and more when I reaching 20++. People says that's a stepping stone of your life. I agreed.
Jealousy always kill. I don't know why, these people let jealousy controlled their mind as they start comparing and trying to make those better than them fall. I told my parents bout that and they told me, this is life. I am glad that my parents always never tell me what to do to avoid. I appreciate their style of educating us. All my siblings, we always face problem on our own. We can share with our parents, but we wont get any advises. They will only tell us, brace yourself, this is life, accept the challenge, solve it and face it. We are proud that we are independent enough, not like the kids nowadays spending parents money like water and need guidance every single second.
Ya, if I am kids that always depend on the advises and guidance of parents, I am not who I am today. And I met lots of challenge in my life whenever I try solving problem, and the biggest turning point of mine not 21(not yet reach), but is 18 years old. That's what make me think further than my peer.
I can say that am lucky that I still stand still today even though I've tried giving up sometimes. Thanks to those haters that trying to block my way. Your jealousy is my motivator. Cause I forgot to tell you, your competitor is sibeh kiasu!!! So, as you start comparing and want to go beyond me, I am already on my way to go beyond myself which means that again one step beyond you.
I am not saying that you will always be loser, but my advise to you, am not afraid of you, and if you want to go beyond me, and you definitely can. But, make sure you go beyond yourself before you wanna go beyond others. This is another lesson I learned from another friend of mine.
Everytime I chat with my friends, my friends told me that I always plan too far, think too far. But, mates, just to tell me, at this age...20++... if you are not going to plan your life, you will never be successful forever, unless you have a rich dad or mum or family background that can support you, and you can continue playing around.
They told me, play first then only plan what to do when I was wondering which future suits me. What I've been told is, "future is unknown" !! I can say, what you are saying is, you are harming your entire life.
I told myself, I don't wanna be at the middle range people... I wanna go higher level or even the highest. And now I am reading the best text book. Text book is not the real book, but, the challenges. Challenges make you experiences. I love listening to the story of all the successful person, not their way of being successful, but the experiences they got. I have seen different kind of people and I will meet more in the future, but, people thought am over thinking. Ya, I don't blame you for thinking me in that way, but, if you faced lots of challenges in your life, you know what am talking.
I always been treated as a fool. People takes advantage from me always, but I don't mind. Don't you know that people who do more, learn more? I have been treated as crap, I sincerely treated everyone good, yet, people don't appreciate and start hurting me by words, it's okay. I learned, and I have took back my sincerity on those people who hurt me. I can like you on my surface, but now am defending you as I see your true color and I will definitely give back all the words to all of you once I succeed and you know how hurt it is. I won't laugh at you, but, I will tell you, the one who you hurt who you fool who you look down, is beyond you.
My friends ask me, how can I handle so many things in one time, I can only tell you, " Don't let things burden you, enjoy it". Even though sometimes I did mumble when am stress, but afterall, when I accomplished them, the excitement is beyond your imagination !!!
So, what I want to share with all my friends that lack of confidence, c'mon !!! If people hurt you with words, hurt them with action by proving them you can be better than them. Don't jealous over people, their fantasy is just temporary if they don't change, but if you change, your whole life will be fantastic.
Good luck :D
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